Life is exactly what you make of it. Yes, there will be problems and challenges, but with the right mind set and the right skill set, you can solve your problems.
I created my life from the ground up; starting in the streets and now living a LIFE I LOVE! Follow these simple steps to learn how to solve your problems.
Indeed, Life Can Be a Little Problematic But…
As we all know, life can be a little problematic sometimes. Right! We can have some tough problems during our life journey. Part of this is my own struggling story that most of you know. I grew up in a broken home, I had some real tough times and I struggled a lot in this specific period of my life.
People can have problems and struggle in almost all their parts of life. In other words, people can marry, have children and still have some serious problems!
And I wanted today to give some proven strategies, that really work, to solve your problems.
#1 Strategy: Get Into a Gratitude Mindset
Before you try to attack your problems, get into a gratitude mindset. In other words, sit down and list all the things that you are grateful for. You need to change your mind, your heart and get into the right perspective.
#2 Strategy: Clearly Define Your Problem
Clearly define your problem. Usually, defining the problem clearly is half the solution! Because you get to see what really it is. Well, psychologically we get all freaked out! We start fearing all these things that could happen or might go wrong and we end up tormented by things that will never actually happen! Thus, we need to get a clear picture what our problem is and what we are going to do about it. Then, we start identifying things that are in our control and the things that are out of our control.
One time there was a wise man in India said:
“If a problem is fixable, if a situation is such that you can do something about it, then there is no need to worry. If it’s not fixable, then there is no help in worrying. There is no benefit in worrying whatsoever.”
So it is just no use worrying! Because if it is in your control, then do something about it and don’t worry about it. And if it is out of your control, then you can’t do anything about it so worrying won’t help so don’t worry! Therefore, either way, do not worry!
#3 Strategy: Clearly Identify Solutions
Next, start identifying things that you can do immediately. Meaning, start putting those possible solutions into test. Start implementing them and start working towards the solutions.
It is so important that we face our challenges and outgrow them!
So the next time a problem comes up, face it squarely, do not get tormented about it and try to avoid it but instead, face it, define it and get yourself in the right mindset, identify what you can do and take action immediately.