Families are falling apart. You don’t want that to happen to yours. There are things you can do to keep your family close together. One sure-fire way to keep your family at its best is to create a phenomenal family culture. Start building this powerful tool into your daily family life today!
Your Family Is Falling Apart! Do Something
Everyday, it seems that my concern for families is growing! Families are falling apart, marriages are hurting, kids are getting lost in the world, and the potential; the happiness and all the goodness in the family is getting lost in so many places! BUT it doesn’t have to be like that! FAMILY LIFE IS THE BEST LIFE! And the greatest HAPPINESS will come within the walls of our own HOMES.
And yet, how often is it that most of the contention, the hurt, frustration, and misery is taking place within the walls of our homes?I want to share with you just one simple idea that helps us keep our families together. To keep them strong and happy for your whole life and hopefully for generations. That idea is creating a family culture.
CULTURE is who we are. It is even more than what we do. It is who we are right now that determines our success as a family.
- What is your family?
- Who are you individually?
- Who are you together?
- What is your culture?
Although our families need both substance and structure, it is essential that we give principle preeminence over procedure. What that means is that we have created this culture and sense of always being busy, but busy doesn’t always mean successful, effective or productive. And it is not always the best thing.
How To Create a Culture of Love
As I have traveled the world, I have had the privilege of working with, experiencing and observing families around the world. And I have seen in other cultures that they have a much stronger FAMILY CULTURE. Even in their overall culture, they value family time more. It’s been a wonderful thing to observe that and there have been so many lessons that I have been able to pick up from that.
So I want to share this idea of creating that culture of who you are and who you want to become. So that every member of your family is eating, drinking, sleeping, living and breathing the highest values that you want for your family. That permeates your home, your thoughts, your ideas and your behaviors. Who you are becoming is all based on that idea of the FAMILY CULTURE you want.
So how do you do that? It’s the things you say, do and think as well as your attitude. All of that fits together in one big whole that is your family culture.
The best thing you can do for your family is to become your very best self! And nothing will get better in your family or in your life until you do! You have to lead out and set that example, and do it every day. It’s something that gets into our hearts and our minds, so that when your children are not in your view, they still make the right decisions.
You don’t have to go home and let out all your worst behavior on the ones you love the most. You should actually value that the most and protect it. You have to leave all the other stuff outside and don’t bring in the culture of the world. Don’t allow the negative cultures in your family, but protect your family from them. We have to become defenders, protectors, and promoters of enlightened and strong families.
Be Brave and Take This Challenge
Here’s my challenge today. Sit down with your family and write a FAMILY CULTURE PLAN. Write down:
- Who you want to become
- What kind of attitude you want to have
- What kind of thought habits you want to have
- What kind of emotional mystery you want to have
- Who you are going to be as a family
So try to get on paper as much as you can and try to include some power words in there. For instance: education, love, charity, active…
Develop your FAMILY CULTURE as who you are.
If you want a strong family that stays together and prevent your family from falling apart, then CREATE A FAMILY CULTURE. Do it today, and it will bless the rest of your life!