Marriage can be one of the most wonderful things in life!! But you have to work at it…hard. Here’s something that will really make a difference.
Seek to be the best partner and spouse that you can possibly be. Yes, there is always room for improvement! 🙂
Want to save your marriage? Want to drastically improve your relationship in every way? Then start with this one simple tip and you’ll soon experience the difference.
Here’s to your newly improved marriage!
How to Evaluate Yourself & Be a Better Spouse
I want to share an experience I had which really made a big difference. I went on a speaking tour up to the states and I super missed my family and I couldn’t wait to get together. While I was there I had plenty time to think and evaluate myself.
- How can I be a better husband and a better father?
- How can I improve my relationships?
- How can I be a better me?
I made some commitments and then when I came home I did what I want to challenge you to do. To be honest, this can be tough but you have to be willing to do it and set aside all your ego and move it out of your way.
The challenge is I want you to sit down and ask your spouse:
- How can you be better?
- What he/she wants you to improve?
- Are doing things that annoy her/him?
- Would you like me to do things you wish I did –that I don’t–?
There may be things you have been doing for your whole married life and your spouse had just dealt with them. Therefore, I want you to go at the right time and in the right way and do the challenge. And yes, keep in mind to be open for anything! And this is such a great way to get your spouse to be totally in love with you again. You also need to keep in mind to be cool and not defensive at all.
Everything Gets Better As You Do
Marriage matter so much my friends! We all want to have a happy awesome marriage; totally authentic, open, exciting, wonderful and fun. Hence, we need to work on improving ourselves as much as we can and we need to be willing to change any kind of a habit that gets in the way of our happiness. And I promise, if you do that, your spouse will jump out on board and you’ll create an awesome marriage!
Always ask your spouse how can you be a better person and your marriage will be better as well. Because everything gets better as you do!